Changing the scenery

This weekend I learned a new word: muga (pronounced moo-ga).

It’s the Kimeru (spoken by the Meru in Kenya) word for hello.

I’m told that the more literal translation is “you have permission to speak.” And what it does is create a space for conversation.

I found the whole concept really interesting.

I love that fact that when you say muga to someone you’re basically inviting them to a conversation with you, you’re holding a space for that conversation.

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Last week one of my goals was to have a sales page up for an upcoming program I’m super excited about sharing with you (watch your inbox!). This program has been swimming around in my head for almost 5 years!

But I couldn’t stay focused on it long enough to make the progress on I needed to in order to write the sales page. I’d sit at my desk and stare, going in circles. Or I’d find something interesting, but very unimportant, to do.

So went the week.

On Friday the weather was wonderful and I decided I’d print out all my notes (some from 2012!) and head over to a forest preserve along the Fox River and work. Before I started I went on a walk and then found an unoccupied picnic table overlooking the river.

I reviewed all my notes and started writing. When I was finished I had finished what I had been trying to work on for most of the week. I assumed I’d been sitting there for at least 90 minutes (there was also lots of staring at the river time involved). However, when I looked at the time, I’d only been working for about 40 minutes!

I was floored by how much I accomplished in that 40 minutes that I couldn’t manage to accomplish in the hours I sat at my desk earlier in the week.

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So, what does muga have to do with the progress on my project?

Muga is about creating a space for conversation.

My project needed me to create a different space to get done what I wanted to get done.

Now, you might be wondering what this has to do with you…

What space are you creating to get the things done that you want to do?

Sometimes we need to plan differently and other times require a change of scenery, to be outside for a bit, or to just give ourselves a break from the “must force myself to get it done” attitude we might have.

In this week’s Wednesday LIVE with Evie, was about creating space for our big projects, for the tasks that require us to dig deep.

And I’d love to know the following from you:

  1. What does it look like when you struggle (change the word to something else) with this
  2. What do you do (or could you do) when you find yourself in that place?

Let me know in the comments below!

My desk is a mess

I’m looking at my desk and I think I need to clean it off.

My desk is big.

My husband made it for himself 10+ years ago when we shared this room as a home office (when neither of us worked from home). He made it specifically to be as long as it could be in this room—the desk is 8 feet long.

And he made it deep so he would have space for things between his monitor and keyboard (this was before super thin monitors were the norm)—it’s 3 feet deep.

So, as you can imagine, there’s a lot of space for paper to accumulate.

And it gives me space to leave a few things on my desk that I might not otherwise (pictures and books).

Basically, if I’m feeling cramped at my desk, it’s not the desk’s fault 🙂

I’m remembering a question that was asked a couple weeks ago in my the event for the Q&A I did:

My desk is a mess right now and I never take time to clear it off. Seems like a time waster, yet I always stare at it and it bugs me. Is there a smart way to tackle this stuff so I can move on?

You can see the Wednesday LIVE with Evie for that here.

Is your desk a mess? Do you have any specific questions around it?
OR is your desk clean? Share your tips and tricks with me below!

Networking Productively

As I was thinking about what I would write about this week, I remembered some conversations I’ve had with a couple different friends about networking – and the frustration with it sometimes.

AND I remembered how BAD at it I was when I started.

Now, I consider how bad I was as a bit of a gift, because I’ve learned a lot about networking over the years. So, I also have a lot to share (and yes, there’s still a bit to learn – always).

So, in this week’s Wednesday LIVE with Evie I shared a few of my tips about networking productively you can see the replay here.

Wednesday LIVE with Evie #19

I cover:

  • How to pick where to network
  • Evaluating your networking success
  • How to have a successful one-on-one (and what it is)
  • What to prepare for networking events

These are a few of my favorite things… from March – Part 1

Over the past month or so I’ve shared a lot on my Facebook page. I’ve pulled some of my favorites and share them below.

Quotes

…most people unconsciously dream themselves out of their goals. They dream so far past their current reality—or what’s currently possible—that they end up abandoning their goals and damaging their own self-esteem.
— Lisa Nichols, Abundance Now

Our outer world will always be a reflection of our inner world. Our level of success is always going to parallel our level of personal development. Until we dedicate time each day to developing ourselves into the person we need to be to create the life we want, success is always going to be a struggle to attain.
— Hal Elrod

What would it be like if, right in the midst of this busyness, we were to consciously take our hands off the controls? …What if we were to intentionally stop our mental computations and our rushing around and for a minute or two, simply pause and notice our experience?
― Tara Brach, Radical Acceptance

Gapingvoid

I really enjoy the Gapingvoid. And my Facebook page shows it! I’ve shared the headlines below with links to the artwork.

pick yourself.
big success is just a lot of little failures scrunched together

Blogs & Podcasts

The Voice In Between Your Ears
Lewis Howes is one of my favorite podcasters. And this is one of my favorites. He’s packed a lot in just over 2 minutes! From Lewis:

It’s important to remember, however, that your mindset is formed by the voice in your head – you know the one.

It either tells you you’re not enough and can’t do it OR it tells you that you are worthy and capable of anything.

What’s important to note is that you get to choose which of these voices to listen to.

How gentleness creates the big breakthrough
This one’s from Danielle LaPorte. And it’s fabulous.

The most powerful pain remedy, elixir, solution, galvanizer, waker-upper, injection of strength is…gentleness.

 

Of course if you want to see things like this throughout the month, like my Facebook page.

What are some of your favorite internet things this month? Share in the comments below.