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Three Questions to Ask Before You Network

How often do you network? The get out of the house and meet people type of networking?

I tend to network one to three times a week, although three times a week can be pushing it a bit for me.

Networking can feel tricky or intimidating, but it doesn’t have to be! There are four main parts:

  1. Finding places to network
  2. Making time in your schedule to go
  3. What to do when you’re there
  4. What to do when you get home

And before you start any of that, there are three questions you should answer about your business. And it’s a good idea to revisit these questions at least once a year – if not more!

  1. Who are your ideal clients, the people you LOVE to work with?
    Yes, if you spend anytime online learning about marketing you’ve heard this question or some version of it about a hundred times. And you’ll keep seeing it because it’s a very important question!
    It isn’t about limiting your service or product to ONLY the people who fit that profile (although it’d be great to be in a place where you could do that, right!), it’s about knowing who you want to be talking to and tailoring what you say to them. Other people will still find you!
    And please, please, please do not say “Everyone is my ideal client!” or some version of that! Everyone might be a potential client, but they are not your ideal client.
    Think of it this way – if you go to the paint department of a home improvement store and tell the person there that you want to buy some paint, they’re going to want to know what room you’re painting and the color you want. If you don’t know the room or the color, the sales person cannot help you very much! And if they do sell you something, you’re probably not going to be happy with it.
    So, be specific! It will help others know who to refer to you.

  2. What do you do? What service do you provide or products do you sell?
    What? Does this seem too obvious?
    Take the time to answer it anyway and use your client’s words where ever you can. Oh, and be sure you think about the benefits and results of working with you or using your product.
    When you do take the time to do this you might find out that (1) what you do has slightly changed, so the way you talk about it needs to change too or (2) you’re doing the same thing you were six months ago, but the way you talk about it has changed and that has helped you greatly or you need to tweak it a bit.

  3. Who are your referral partners?
    Referral partners, also called power partners, are other people or businesses that have the same ideal client as you do, but offer a different service or product.
    Can’t think of anyone? Think about your ideal client, what other services or products are they buying or do they need?

What does this have to do with productivity or scheduling your time?

More than you might think! And you’ll want to come back each week for the next four weeks to find out more!

Next week I’ll cover finding places to network and the following weeks I’ll cover the other three topics listed above.

Now, for this week, I’d love it if you’d share your answers to the questions above in the comments below!

Flowers through the snow

What Season Are You In?

Flowers through the snowSupposedly, the season is changing here in the Midwest from winter to spring. The weather must have received the memo on that a bit late though. So, I’ve been thinking more than usual about seasons changing.

And while I was wondering if it was ever going to warm up, I had a random question pop into my head: What season am I in and what’s the next one?

I journaled about that for a bit and it highlighted what I want to leave behind me in my business and what I want for the future. It was really useful, so I wanted to share the prompts I used with you.

  1. What season of your life / business are you leaving?
    And what behaviors, habits, results, feelings, etc. characterized that season?

  2. What is the next season of your life / business?
    1. What is the melting snow washing away?
      What behaviors, habits, feelings, results, etc. are you leaving behind?

    2. What flowers are coming up?
      What behaviors habits, feelings, results, etc. will characterize this coming season?

    3. What additional behaviors, habits, feelings, results, etc. need to be washed away to allow those new flowers to flourish?
    4. What kind of fertilizer or care will encourage those flowers to grow?
      What support or strategies will you have in place?

Print this out and spend some time with it.

You’ll find some really great insights to where you want to be in your business. And, you’ll outline some of the ways that will support you on that path.

I’d love to know a little bit about your seasons! Share what season you’re leaving or what season is just beginning for you below!

Businesswoman Looking Through Binoculars

What Are You Noticing?

Businesswoman Looking Through BinocularsSomeone I respect and love recently posted a video for their upcoming program.

In person, I find them kind, warm and funny.

In the video, they were clearly trying to make a point and take a stand.

Which is good, right?

You want videos (and articles) to make a point and stand for something.

And maybe it’s only because I know them in person, but I couldn’t help but wonder – where is that kind, warm and funny person I know?

The person in the video is rehearsed and awkward.

Where is the smile and twinkle in the eye? How could have they brought more of that to the video?

It seemed too… perfect and planned… trying too hard.

And then I wondered: What does this say about me? Why am I noticing this? Why am I not appreciating the message being delivered, the stand this person is taking for what they believe in?

I came up with two answers:

  1. I’m afraid of coming off as too rehearsed sometimes, too perfect and planned, trying too hard. Interestingly, I’m also afraid of coming across as unprepared or not prepared enough. Or somehow not sharing the warmth and kindness that I know I have.
  2. Maybe this video is exactly what it needs to be. Maybe I don’t resonate with it because it’s not meant for me. Or maybe I’m so busy putting my “stuff” on someone else, that I’m not allowing the message to really sink in.

Why am I sharing this story with you?

It’s easy to be critical of someone or something else, easy notice that they’re doing it wrong.

After all, we see those things pointed out all the time – worst dressed lists, reality TV shows or someone casually saying “that’s not how I would have done it.” We expect it and we look for it so we have something to talk about with our family and friends.

What if we started looking at ourselves instead? No, I’m not suggesting you notice everything you perceive as wrong with yourself.

Instead, what if you asked yourself why you noticed what you noticed? In many cases, you’ll find that it’s (1) something you do yourself (or think you do) that you wish you didn’t do or (2) something you used to do and wish you hadn’t. Basically, there’s some self-judgment happening.

I challenge you to think about this and observe what you notice this week.

Share your thoughts in the comments below!

Business Woman Writing In Notebook

Staying Focused

Business Woman Writing In NotebookBack when I was a computer programmer, my job included a lot of troubleshooting for clients. So, when something wasn’t working right, it was my job to (1) determine what the problem was and (2) fix it or find a work around and report it to development.

What does that mean? It means that was no shortage of options when it came to what to work on each day. Quite frankly, some days it was hard to stay focused because there were many important tasks I could be working on at any moment.

Now, fast forward a couple years, I’m an entrepreneur working from home. While I don’t get phone calls from clients with websites or software that’s not working, I still have a lot of important tasks I could be doing for my business at any one moment. And because I work from home, there are also a lot of personal things I could be doing.

And of course, at home, no one but me is going to notice if I’m watching TV, YouTube or doing something else instead of working on one of those important tasks (well, my husband might start to notice).

So, how do you stay focused to work on those important tasks?

Here are some things you can do or consider:

  • Lists. You’ve taken the time to write down all the tasks that you need to do. Yes, it took some time that you could have used working, but it also saved you all that time and energy of worrying that you’re going to forget to do something. And when you remember something else, you have a spot to write it down so you don’t forget it (hint: it’s that same list, don’t start a new one!).
  • Plan tomorrow at the end of today. When you don’t have to think about what the next thing is to do, because you already planned it out, it’s easier to jump into the next task. It’s another reason why creating your master or weekly list is so important.
  • Clarity. You are clear on why the task is important to you, your business and your goals. You know that this task by itself might not be important, it is important to your larger goals.
  • Minimize Distractions.
    • Email / Phone – Close your email (yes, really do that!) and silence your phone. This way you have a solid period of time to work without distractions.
    • Family – You’ve also let others in the house know you’re working and should not be disturbed for 1-hour (or whatever period of time you need) or until you open your office door. However, once the time is up, go engage with your family, play with your kids for a half hour or talk to your husband. Why do this? If your family knows that you’ll emerge from your office and be there for them, they’re more likely to leave you alone for a bit.
    • Noise – If there is distracting noise (or distracting quiet – yes, I occasionally find silence very distracting), find some soothing music to play in the background. Pandora or Spotify are great for that.
  • Just sit down and do it. Personally, this rarely works for me. I need to have one or more of the items above figured out before I can just sit down and do it. And I’m guessing, because you’re here, that you’re probably like me in this regard.

Anything else you do to stay focused on the task at hand? Share in the comments below!

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Covered Walkway

Taking a Break

Covered Walkway

This week I think we all need a break.

I invite you to spend the couple minutes you would usually take reading this article to think about three things you are grateful for (write them down if you’d like!) and then close your eyes and allow yourself to feel gratitude. Really feel it! Let your thankfulness seep into every nook and cranny of your being.

When you’re finished take a deep breath and get a glass of water.

Enjoy your break.