I admire your optimism, but control isn’t something you get by pushing a button on a web page. However, I can point you to some other posts on control:
Power of Response-Ability – a post by Steve at Karmic Kappuccino
Illusion of Control – there’s a whole page at Wikipedia dedicated to this! Although it focuses only on controlling situations and does not go into reactions.
Know any that should be included here that aren’t? Let me know in the comments!
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